Children have been offered the roles of flower girls and ring bearers for a long time, because it?s not only adorable, but adds a level of warmth and amusement to your special day. Whether they?re your own, a relative, or a friend?s, kids can be extremely fun to have around at the wedding.
However, keeping children behaved and amused at the same time can be challenging. There?s a lot to consider, from their age and personality, to their needs and wants. So, if you need a few ideas for keeping your flower girls and ring bearers happy during your big day, we’re here for you!
1. Make Them Feel Special

Once you?ve been given the go-ahead to appoint your niece, nephew, cousin, or other small child as the flower girl or ring bearer, it?s time to officially ask them. When you do, really talk it up and make them feel special. Let them know what an honor it is to be part of the wedding, and how much fun they?ll have. Make sure to also explain what the role involves, whether it?s tossing petals or carrying the rings down the aisle, and how important it is. You should also ask their parents to talk about it frequently leading up to the wedding so they don?t forget. 2. Get Them Involved
Instead of just taking over all of the decisions that involve them and their role, get them involved! This will give the child ownership of the roles and make them feel like they?re valued and appreciated. That doesn?t mean you have to let them choose their outfit completely, but offer up a coup...