While most couples want to keep their relationship ?spicy,? there are definitely time periods in a marriage when doing so feels next to impossible. Let’s just say that it’s easier said than done. But if you heed the red flags, you’re on the right path toward preventing a boring sex life. In an attempt to keep what goes on in your bedroom fresh and exciting, here’s some things to watch out for.
1. You Don?t Try New Things
When your relationship was new, it probably came naturally to try novel things in the bedroom. Once that stops happening and you fall into the same old (somewhat boring) routine, it?s definitely an indication that it?s time to freshen things up.
2. There?s no Spontaneity
This comes down to being too invested in routine. Being spontaneous is a natural way to keep things exciting in your bedroom. Rather than only being intimate on designated days or at certain times, spice things up by being less regimented and letting your instincts rule. Taking the time to surprise your spouse in this way shows that you want to keep your relationship exciting and intimate time with them is more than just a date on a calendar. 3. You Keep Sex in the Bedroom

If sex is always occurring in the same place, take that as a sign that you need to shake things up. Try a new location, as well as a new position or two, to keep things fun and interesting. Changing up your entire routine?including time of day, location, and method?all make for a more spicy lov...