In the immortal words of Salt-N-Pepa, ?Let?s talk about sex, baby.?
Woah, hold up. Don?t close this article so quickly! Sex is an important part of every marriage?the one thing we all have, but no one seems to want to talk about. The legacy of Puritanism and buttoned-up attitudes here in the U.S. (and many other cultures) means that many people are uncomfortable talking about sex with anyone, including their partners.
Here?s the truth: the only way to have a truly great sex life is to communicate about it with your partner. You both need to be on the same page mentally and emotionally before you can knock each other?s socks off horizontally! I know it may be awkward, but here are three things you should talk about with your husband.
What You Like
We all already know that everyone?s body is different. Some of us have food allergies. Some of us have lightning-fast metabolisms. Similarly, no two people think exactly alike. Some people love dogs. Others love cats. Some think aliens don?t exist, and some are convinced they?ve seen them in the flesh (or whatever it is aliens have). Our world is filled with unique people, who each have their own bodies, minds, hearts, and personalities. Which means?most people have their own, unique sexual interests.
When you start a relationship with someone, they have no idea what?s going to excite you in bed or make you orgasm. With time (and luck) they may discover a few key points, but there?s only one person who can really unlock that sec...