Wedding planning is already nerve-racking on its own, but thinking your groom isn?t into the process as much as you’d like can multiply the stress levels. How can he not care about color schemes and what the groomsmen wear" Why doesn?t he take your side when his mom insists on having his aunt do the flowers instead of a professional" Why does he always say, ?It?s up to you?"
Are you in this alone" The answer, of course, is likely no. Just because your fiancé is not as organized or even as expressive as you doesn’t mean he cares less about the coming celebration.
We spoke to a few past grooms who have been through wedding planning, as well as some who are going through it right now, and here are the most common answers they shared when asked, ?What are the thoughts that you?re not sharing about wedding planning"? I know weddings are expensive, but it still surprises me.
Nowadays, it?s a lot more common for soon-to-be-married couples to foot the bill for their wedding, and everyone?s aware of how expensive a wedding can get. But going over the pricing for each vendor can still surprise a groom. He doesn?t want you to find him cheap, and he definitely wants to give you the best, so let him vent. Show him price differences when you scout for vendors and express why you prefer one particular vendor over the other. Budget management is something you can work on together as a team and it will prove to be useful once you’re actually marr...