Photograph: IVS Photography
When a loved one is getting married, it?s easy to get swept up in the planning of their big day ? especially if you?ve gone through the process yourself. However, weddings are emotional, and even well-intentioned advice can come across as judgmental or pushy. As a result, it?s usually wise to keep your opinions to yourself and let the couple call the shots on their way to the aisle.
In some cases, speaking up can help your engaged friends avoid costly mistakes and reduce stress throughout the wedding planning process. So, how do you know when it?s time to share your two cents and when it?s best to stay quiet"
Joan Wyndrum of Blooms by the Box notes, ?A good motto to remember when expressing your opinion to a bride or groom is this: what’s my intention" Is it necessary to say this" Does it serve a purpose" It’s okay to express your opinion if you feel strongly about something but do so privately rather than in front of others.? If you?re unsure where your opinion falls, here are five situations that allow you to speak your mind.
Photograph:: Jenna Brisson

#1 When feedback is requested
When a couple asks for your insight, it?s a good sign they welcome your thoughts! Be open to giving your honest opinion, as that?s precisely what your friend needs from you.
Alicia Mae of ILE Events confirms as much, suggesting to ?give advice when the couple asks for this assistance and thoughts on a particular ...