We see it in movies, we hear it in songs, we watch our friends and family members go through it, and we live it. Love is everywhere, and it’s one of the things almost all people have in common: we want to love and be loved in return.
Finding “the one” seems to be a quest that so many people find themselves on at one time or another, desperate to find their true loves. However, one thing I’ve noticed is that the more someone obsesses over it, the less likely he or she is to find it.

If you’re dating to find the one, consider these few things first.
1. Think About What You Want
When you’re single and looking for love, it’s easy to see past people’s shortcomings. But, if you’re looking for the one, you really should take the time to consider what it is you want and need in a relationship and in life. This is the best way to make sure that the person you are dating is worth your time and energy. It may sound harsh, but why put yourself through heartache when it can be avoided" There are a few questions you should ask yourself when dating to find the one. Things you should consider include your values, life goals, responsibilities, and pastimes. For example, if you want to get married, have kids, and settle down in the suburbs, you wouldn’t date someone who doesn’t want a family and plans to live in downtown Manhattan. If you swore to yourself that swore you’d never date a smoker, and stick to it.
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