Many people assume that marital sex is either a never-ending thrill ride or tired drudgery. The truths, obviously, are as distinct as there are unique couples in the world. Regardless of whether you and your partner begin your sexual relationship on the night after your wedding or much earlier, you’re wise to assume that your relationship in the bedroom will evolve over time. A great sex life is based in communication and being generous and responsive; everything else is actually surprisingly similar to good relationship advice in general! Here are some smart ways to think about your married sex life to avoid creating unrealistic expectations.
1. You’re In it for the Long Haul
Early in marriage, sex can be spontaneous and exciting, but the foundations you want to lay include continuing to grow with your partner. Over the years, you’ll most likely find new things that excite you and your husband or wife, and it’s important to be ready to change together over time to fit those things. Try to resist the need to impress each other in ways that don’t feel authentic to yourself. Do what you are genuinely interested in trying, and trust that your best sex will be the sex you’re excited to participate in. 2. You May Need Some Time to Get Comfortable

While many married couples have had time to get accustomed to each other sexually, you may find that getting married throws off your rhythm. Some couples also start their sexual relationship after m...