Making a speech on your wedding day is daunting, especially for those who a) don’t like public speaking and b) have trouble stringing their thoughts together in a cohesive, creative, and intimate manner. You want to write a speech that’s personal to both you and your bride, but one that’s also inspiring, loving, and entertaining. It’s definitely not easy, not even for the most professional scribes. Luckily, we rounded up some simple and useful tips that will help perfect your groom speech to get everyone laughing and crying—and maybe even at the same time.
1. Be Prepared
Preparation is key. While you might think that you can jot down a few notes and say something off the cuff, the reality is that unless you’re a professional improviser, then your speech will probably fall flat. Preparation also means not writing down your speech the night before and memorizing it in a last-minute cram session. This is your wedding and not the SATs, so start preparing your speech at least a month before the big day. Jot down ideas, write out a few drafts, and start memorizing it a few weeks before the big day. You might even want to practice it in front of a few trusted friends for feedback. 2. Keep it Clean
This isn’t the time to spill any of the bride’s secrets or make any rude references about your father-in-law. Swearing and using any offensive language is also a big no-no. Keep it clean and respectful.
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