No matter how much time you’ve spent together before the wedding, you and your spouse will always have new things to learn about and from each other. To keep the conversation and learning process open, have a running list of questions to ask each other that you don’t already know the answers to. Not only is this a great way to build a deeper knowledge about your husband or wife and strengthen your connection, but it can be a fun way to kill time on things like car trips or to keep each other away from your phones as you’re relaxing in bed at the end of the day. Here’s nine questions to get you started, whether you’re newlyweds or have been married 10 years.
1. What is your dream (house/car/place to live) and why" This question allows you two to daydream together. As you begin your married life together, daydreaming about specific place you want to live or cars you want to drive gives you both something to work towards together.
2. What are some of your most cherished memories as a child"
This is a nice way to talk about childhood without distinctly talking about parenting. Ideally, you two already know where the other person stands on having kids, but if either of you are still “on the fence,” talking about childhood can sometimes naturally lead to an honest conversation about potential parenting scenarios.
3. Who is your closest friend and what do you like about them"
Especially if you don’t share a friend gro...