In many cases we often hear of the bride taking charge of the wedding. She makes the decisions, gets her female friends and family members involved, and has a pretty clear vision for her special day. While this might be common, it doesn’t mean a groom can’t plan his own wedding or that his only job is to show up on time. A lot of men actually enjoy being involved in the planning process, and pitching in when and where they can. And they should. It’s their special day, too!
For any men who have found themselves wondering what to do after their wonderful spouse has said yes, here is a simple guide to being the groom.
Take Initiative
Planning a wedding is a lot of work! And while your future spouse might act like they have it all under control, it doesn’t hurt to take some initiative. Show them that this day means just as much to you by taking charge when appropriate, before they even has to ask. The last thing you want is a freak out because they’re stressed and you were simply waiting for a sign. Show Interest

This is a special day for the both of you. Even though many women stereotypically get excited about wedding planning, it’s important that you plan it together with your fiancee. That means you should at the very least show some interest in this phase. If they want to know what you think of the flowers, do your best to give an answer. And if you really don’t care, instead of saying that you don’t care, just agree with th...