First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes?you know the rest.
Perhaps this schoolyard rhyme conditioned us think that the proper step in life after marriage is children. Today, there is no perfect time to start a family, and there is no foolproof expert who knows what’s best for every couple after they tie the knot. Each marriage is different with its own set of dynamics, goals, and paths.
How do newlyweds know when they may be ready to begin a family" We researched opinions to compile and share common responses. Ultimately, it’s a personal decision and a discussion between the couple.

Personal Values
Starting a family can be a significant goal for one or both individuals in a marriage. It?s likely the topic of children is a discussion that happens as the relationship grows. Some women and men know from a young age that they would prefer a big family and hope that parenthood is in the near future. Planning for a child can force couples to take a hard look at their financial situation. Not only does one?s lifestyle change drastically, but funds can shift to other necessities. It?s reasonable for some couples to wait until they feel financially secure to raise a child. This article by CNBC.com explains some foreseeable expenses in the first year such as medical costs, nursery preparations, childcare, diapers, and food, etc. In 2017, the USDA published that the average cost to raise a child to adulthood was estimated at more than $233,000.

Timing and...