Wedding planning often goes peachy until other people get involved ? namely, the guests! After the fun of picking colours, tasting cakes, and trying on attire, some couples are surprised to find the drama that unfolds when it comes to building a guest list, sending invitations, and coordinating RSVPs.
What starts as a simple task of counting heads can turn into a stressful juggling act of chasing down late responders and deciphering unclear responses. Who gets a plus-one" How do you explain politely that your wedding is an adults-only event" What happens when guests push back on your boundaries" These questions can turn an otherwise enjoyable experience into a stressful process rife with confrontations.
The Top RSVP Challenges + How to Handle Them By Meghan Ely, OFD Consulting

photo by Jessie Schultz Photography  – full wedding here 
RSVP challenges can arise at any stage of the process, but ?the best way to combat stress is to be educated and well-prepared,? states Khloe Jackson of W Events. To start, invitations should clearly state the names of those invited and a firm RSVP deadline.
?We set our couples’ RSVP due back dates earlier than is traditionally custom ? 5 weeks prior to event day,? Jackson shares. ?That intentional cushion prepares our couples with ample time to reach out to guests who got busy with life and may not have heard back.?
It?s also wise to provide a point of contact for guests to reach out if they have questions or conce...