It’s a universal truth every bride realizes at some point: everyone’s got an opinion! And there are few opinions that matter more than a mother’s, whether that be your own or your partner’s. We know there can be a lot of emotions (your own and otherwise) to juggle as a bride, and there can be […]

It’s a universal truth every bride realizes at some point: everyone’s got an opinion! And there are few opinions that matter more than a mother’s, whether that be your own or your partner’s.
We know there can be a lot of emotions (your own and otherwise) to juggle as a bride, and there can be a lot of pressure to please others. Read on for some advice on how to avoid any and all potential drama in the wedding planning process!
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Your Mother
Start out by keeping everything in perspective. Your mother has also been dreaming of this day since you were very small, probably even longer than you have. Yes, she already had her day but it’s important not to rob her of the experience of being the MOB completely. Ensure that she feels heard and special: let her know the verdict of key decisions first, delegate tasks you think she could really nail, and above all, let her know her careful input is appreciated.

Clayton Austin
That being said, it’s important to establish boundaries early, but not aggressively. Try not to jump into defense mode right away. Lay out clear expectations and discuss decisions...