The timeless bee tradition of the before-and-after questionnaire has finally come our way! Mr. Feather and I are still firmly in planning mode but have most of the big things crossed off our list, so I thought now would be a good time to check in and record our answers.

The Feathers at a wedding in Germany, 2015. Yes, I forgot to take off my FitBit. Yes, Mr. Feather looks damn good in a suit. // Personal photo
What?s your biggest priority for the wedding"
Beyond the usual responses about wanting our guests to have an amazing time, good photography, delicious food, and an overall awesome party, I?m a stickler for starting on time. Our guests have come from all over the world to attend our wedding, and I feel starting the ceremony more than a few minutes late would be inconsiderate.
Spending time with all of our guests one-on-one at some point during the weekend is another big priority for us. This might be a little unrealistic, but I want to be able to have a quick conversation with everyone—not just to thank them for showing up and supporting us but also to catch up with them personally and find out what?s been going on in their lives.
What?s your biggest concern for the day"
Nothing. Is that weird" It?s just one day. Sure, I worked my butt off planning it, but I firmly believe everyone is going to have a great time no matter what little issues come our way.
What DIY project do you care about the most"
This wedding is a DIY-free zone.

Exhibit A ...