In getting any group together, there are certain challenges. From the business world to the world of weddings, people can be tough to navigate in a gathering. You may be worrying about how certain members of your party will get along, or maybe the discord has already started. So, how do you handle these situations in a delicate way" And if you?re pre-war, how can you keep the discord from happening at all" We’ve got some tips and tricks for keeping your party as peaceful as can be. (Remember, you want your bridesmaids to remain your friends after the wedding.)
Avoid Changing Expectations
The truth is you are the biggest factor. It may not be fun to admit that you?re part of the problem, but sometimes you are. The vibe rests on your shoulders and you may be doing things, accidentally of course, that are setting your peaceful hopes up for failure. Are you giving your bridesmaids certain expectations and then changing them all the time" Weddings can be stressful to be a bridesmaid and if you?re constantly pulling the rug out from under them, it can cause discontent. The more stressed your party is, the more likely they are to take it out on each other or even, heaven forbid, you. Here?s a real world example: you tell them to buy a certain pair of shoes for their wedding outfit and a month later you change your mind. Planning is hard, but if you want things to be simple, don?t complicate things for your party. Keep Costs Reasonable

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