Changes can be good or bad. When it comes to relationships, changes are only good if you and your partner are on the same page. It?s so important to be together in mind about a big change especially if the change involves something completely new. It can be scary to throw a new element into your relationship.
Let?s say your partner wants to try something new, but you?re not sure about it. Should you just tell your partner no" Well, that honestly depends on the situation and how opposed you are to it. We?ve looked at some common scenarios below for you to check out. Most proposed changes can be placed in one of the following categories, but it?s not always that clean cut. If none of these matches your situation, check out the section titled ?General Advice?. There are some specific things to think about when it comes to your partner expressing interest in the new and unknown.
Something Weird in the Bedroom
Listen, when it comes to the bedroom we?re not all wild animals. Some of us prefer things to be a bit more vanilla, a bit more stable. When a partner throws an unconventional move or suggestion into the mix, it can throw us off completely. This area can be the hardest to try new things in because frankly, it can feel embarrassing. Even with our partners, we can feel shy. It?s hard to be open to looking silly or failing at something new. Explain this fear to your partner and talk with them about it. Decide whether you?re ever going to be willing to explore in this ar...