When it comes time to pop the question, there arises a debate on whether you need to get permission from your girlfriend’s (or boyfriend’s) family. This debate could carry on in several different directions because the simplest answer is: it depends.
There are essentially three types of situations that your future spouse may be in. The first, she is remarkably traditional, and family is important to her. The second, she believes in family and loves her family, but feels a sense of independence and longs to be on her own. Last of all, she may not have a relationship at all with her family or just doesn’t value family members’ opinions. Whatever the situation may be, we will guide you through it all so that when you are on bended knee, you will know you left no stone unturned. The Cohesive Family
If you find yourself spending a great deal of time with your soon-to-be spouse’s family, calling your future in-laws by their first names, and spending late nights at their house, then it’s probably safe to say that there is a cherished relationship there. It might not be appropriate for you to skip out on asking permission in this circumstance.
Your future spouse likely relies heavily on the opinion of her family. What they think of you will affect your relationship greatly. It’s important that they approve of you. We suggest participating in a number of various activities with them. This will allow you to be in many varied settings with th...