Have you been invited to attend a big, formal wedding but aren’t sure what to expect" No need to freak out about what to do at a formal wedding. Take a deep breath, as it doesn?t matter if this is your first formal wedding. Remember, it?s another opportunity for you to have fun no matter the formality. What to wear, time of year, which fork to use and for what dish" We?ll walk you through a few basics, so you can relax and then have a blast at possibly the best invite of the year. Lucky you!
Invitation and RSVP
The invitation is the best clue to specifics about the wedding formalities. First, what does it say about formality: black tie, white tie, beach formal, California formal, etc" Look up these terms online to get an overview of how to dress. Of course, it?s perfectly acceptable to contact the couple if you?re not certain about what to wear or any other unanswered questions. Also, if you have any food allergies, it?s fine to ask to speak with their caterer. Do send the invitation back as soon as it?s convenient, as the couple have many things to organize for their big day. And if something does arise and you can?t attend, it?s important to tell the couple immediately, so they can save the expense by cancelling with vendors, caterers, and possibly change seating arrangements.

Attire
First, white tie is the most formal, think royal occasion or formal event at the White House. For gentlemen, this would include long-tail black tuxedos, white bow tie, ...