Calling all newly minted Mothers of the Bride! You, my lovely MOBs, are sitting pretty in your new role. While the social expectations of MOBs have changed throughout the decades, there?s no question that Mom will most likely play an important role in the big day. Whether you?re walking your daughter down the aisle or relaxing in the front pew, whether you?re excited to show off your moves on the dance floor or you?d prefer to do some elegant people-watching from your seat?you?re in a great position in relation to your child?s wedding day.
Of course, there are some misconceptions?and downright misunderstandings?about being a modern-day MOB. What do your pre-wedding responsibilities look like" (hint: they don?t actually have to look like anything!) Are you required to wear a dress" What?s your bank account going to look like once those crazy kids jet off on their honeymoon"! Fear not, loving mothers. Below are four of the most important guidelines to your role as MOB in your daughter?s nuptials!
This isn?t your wedding (and that?s a good thing!)
This is an absolute blessing. You can be as involved as you and your daughter agree on in terms of decisions. Does she want your opinion on the color scheme" Maybe she?s stuck on what style of bridesmaid dress to choose" These are both great times for you to play consultant?not ?secondary bride.? This process may be tricky to navigate for your sweet girl, and you?ll likely want to help her out?a role you?ve ...