Everyone knows that relationships are hard work, but only those couples in long-distance relationships know just how hard that work can get: the scheduling conflicts, the late-night or early-morning FaceTime sessions, the expensive plane tickets. If you?re in a long-distance relationship, you and your partner are probably planning to reunite at some point?probably once you?re happily married. But until that glorious day, how do you manage a long-term engagement, plan a wedding, and stay sane" Here are a few tips that will help.
Talk About Relocation FIRST
In the same way that every couple should talk about money management, family planning, and long-term goals before getting married, long-distance couples need to discuss their living situation. Deciding where you are going to live is an essential part of your future together, and it?s important to make the best decision you can. Think honestly about where you want to live, and what that decision will mean for your future. Is it important that you stay near family" Will your current job allow you to work remotely, or will you need to look for another position" Communicate with your partner and put your heads together to decide on the best option?and remember to be willing to compromise if necessary.
Prioritize the Rest of Your Life

For a couple in a long-distance engagement, the wedding planning period isn’t just about finding the right dress, flowers, and venue; it’s about laying the groundwork ...