Often, both brides and grooms face new in-law relationships with a bit of worry. While mother-in-law relationships are often forged in the wedding planning process, it can take more effort to draw out a new father-in-law. Both brides and grooms, however, benefit from making those efforts, since they’ll be interacting with this father-in-law for the rest of their lives. It’s great to turn that neutral relationship into a positive and fruitful one. Here’s five ways to begin building a positive relationship with a father-in-law.
Pay Attention to His Interests

Even as the wedding planning process begins, start noting the kinds of things your father-in-law likes. After all, if he’s a big barbecue guy or loves taking care of his car, you should know that. Take opportunities to express a little interest in the things he cares about. It’s not a good idea to feign knowledge about a topic he knows well (he will figure you out!), but inquiring about his interests and hobbies will create a positive impression of you in his mind. Suggest Group Hangout Time
Got a pretty taciturn or hard-to-read father-in-law" Figure out how to spend time in groups with him. The group takes away the pressure to have lots of relevant things to say, but gives you time to get to know him without being the only one talking. You will get an easier, less awkward experience with him that still allows you two to grow closer, especially if the group contains some of his favorit...