The best man at a wedding ceremony and reception is a celebrity. They’re known for their hilarious (and sometimes embarrassing) speeches, and they can throw one hell of a bachelor party. The best man is the guy who gets the party started and keeps it going all night. He’s also the guy that you rely on to accomplish some wedding tasks like holding onto the rings, helping you pick up the tuxes, and helping you determine what kind of beer you should serve at the reception.
Out of all your buddies, who should you choose to be your best man" If you don’t have any idea of who you should ask, or you’re torn between two guys, here are a few things to consider to help you choose your best man.
Family is Typically Chosen Over Friends for the Best Man If you have a brother, your job of choosing a best man just got really simple. A brother, whether they’re younger or older, has all the makings of the perfect best man: he knows you well, he’s likely met your fiancée/fiancé, and he would know exactly what kind of bachelor party he should throw for you when the time comes.
Unless your brother is significantly younger or older, or you just really don’t get along that well, having your brother as a best man is often the easiest choice. If you have more than one brother, there’s no “rule” that you can’t have more than one best man. Have them divide up the responsibilities between them to avoid any potential conflicts....