The process of getting married is often more than just planning the wedding itself. There are a number of pre-wedding occasions that are customary in the lead-up to the big day. While these events are not required, there are many pros to having them. Depending on your timeline, budget, and how large your guest list will be, you might find some of these events helpful, if not simply fun. Because this is your wedding, you can also pick and choose which events are appropriate for you and which ones you might skip.
Engagement Party

What: The engagement party is a small, semi-casual gathering following the announcement of your new relationship status. Because it doesn?t have to be a formal occasion, the engagement party doesn?t have to be complicated or expensive. Many people choose to host it at home with just cocktails or even a BBQ. Gifts shouldn?t be expected, although some people might bring a little something like a polite gesture. Who: It is generally hosted by the bride or groom or the parents, as a means of celebrating the occasion. As with most pre-wedding events, the guest list should consist of who you plan to invite to the wedding itself, but more condensed.
When: Engagement parties are typically held soon after the actual engagement, or no longer than a month or few afterward. It’s recommended to have a wedding date set or have some idea where or what the wedding will be like, as that will be the most-asked question.
Pros and Cons: Because the guest list ...