We’ve all heard the “Men are from Venus, Women are from Mars” speech. Men don’t always think the same as women so it’s often hard for them to grasp the importance of the perfect proposal. I dreamed about this perfect proposal my entire life so I could only pray my boyfriend would make it come true. We’ve been married four years following what turned out to be a fairy tale of a night for me so I’m here to help ensure you have all your proposal dreams come true as well.
Don’t Force The Proposal
My husband and I dated four years before he popped the question. It’s important to know if your significant other is ready before you really start pushing the wedding stuff. If you do it too early, they may be flying out the door. Some people just aren’t ready to settle down and may want things in their life a certain way before heading to the alter. This doesn’t mean they don’t want to marry you one day, but it does mean today just isn’t that day. My husband wanted to make sure his job was stable and he was able to ensure our life would be comfortable before he could even buy a ring. You don’t want your honey to propose just because he feels pressured by everyone around the two of you. If you want your personal perfect proposal, you have to wait until both of you are ready or it’ll feel forced.
Drop Hints Without Scaring Them Away
It’s important to talk about the type of proposal you want...