The wedding is a few short weeks away, but sex between you and your partner has stalled. Now what" The stress of wedding planning can get to anyone. The dress, the caterers, the photographer, tuxes for the groom and groomsmen, your parents, his or her parents?all of these things can cause your stress levels to escalate and make any intimacy seem forced. Yet, for most couples, happiness in the bedroom and happiness in the marriage go hand in hand.
Don?t bottle your frustrations and settle for whatever you can get. Communication between you and your partner is key to reviving your stalled sex life.
Share the Work of Wedding Planning
Even if you?re an expert at planning, budget management, crisis management, and everything else, it?s important that you don?t take the entire burden on your shoulders. Generally, most men marrying women are not very involved in the planning process. If you ask them about anything, they may say, ?I don?t care. Just tell me when and where to be and I?ll be there. I want to marry you. I don?t really care how it happens.? or ?weddings are for the ladies.? They might not feel they are allowed an opinion, or they may not have much of an opinion, but the stress of planning could drive a huge wedge between you and your partner that translates into not having meaningful sex for a long time.

With same-sex couples, the ?assigned? roles aren?t as strict. There are less expectations surrounding who should do what with the planning, so it can be easier ...