So, your little girl has found the love of her life. Maybe you couldn?t be happier. Maybe you feel like Steve Martin in Father of the Bride. Either way, you?re expected to say a few words on her wedding day.
Are you ready"
If the answer is ?not a chance,? don?t sweat it. A father of the bride (FOB) speech doesn?t have to be scary! Here are some tips to help you master the speech and make your daughter?s day.
Know the Tone
Before you write a single word, it?s important to understand the tone of your speech. As the father of the bride, you should have two objectives: express the love you have for your daughter and welcome her spouse into the family. Every word of your speech should contribute to one of those two objectives.
In your FOB speech, you have an opportunity to share your perspective on the bride, the couple, and marriage in general. It?s important that your words are sincere and reflective of your feelings on what?s sure to be an emotional day. Take some time to figure out what you want to say ? not just to the other guests, but to your daughter and her new spouse. Do you want to share your favorite memories of the bride" Do you have sage advice for navigating married life" Do you want to express your pride in how the couple has grown together over time" If you have a clear idea of the tone from the first word, crafting a clear and memorable speech will be much easier.
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