How to Move on from a Hard First Year of Marriage
It’s been said that the first year of marriage is the hardest. In fact, a 2012 study found that ?people married for less than a year have lower levels of wellbeing than people in any other year of marriage.? Yikes! Figuring out how to navigate the murky waters and pitfalls of that first year is one thing, however, moving on from those difficult 12 months is another. Knowing how to bounce back from it is more than half the battle (and it might even help save your marriage). Below are our tips on how to move on from a hard first year of marriage.
Make an effort to clear up misunderstandings or conflict right away
No doubt, you’ve had your fair of share of banter, bickering, and arguments during that first year. That’s OK; you were just ironing out the kinks! When it comes to conflict, the quicker you voice what’s bothering you, the better. Conflicts, when they’re done effectively, are a great way to learn how to communicate with each other in a way that feels good to both of you. They also help you learn more about your partner, so you’re able to understand him or her better when it comes to conflict and resolution. Learning how to quickly resolve your arguments peacefully so you both feel seen and heard will help smooth out the rest of your life together. Learn how to compromise on the house rules
Marriage means coming together in a number of ways, including learning how to live together as partners in daily life. This means that finan...
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