There are thousands of books and magazine articles on wedding advice?but most of it is centered on heterosexual couples. Although this is slowly changing, when you’re a woman who is getting married to another woman and you’re trying to plan a ceremony, it can get a little frustrating to see a lack of good advice out there.
When you’re trying to plan your ceremony, there are a few things you’ll need to figure out:

What will the two of you wear"
Where will the ceremony be"
Do we want to have a bridal party" Who should be included"
Should we have flowers at the ceremony"
Who should officiate"

Here are a few tips to help you figure out what you want to do so you can have that dreamy, romantic ceremony you always wanted. There Are No Rules You Have to Follow
Modern day weddings are all about personalization and breaking these traditional wedding “rules.” You can make your wedding as traditional or as nontraditional as you like. If you want to get married in a house of worship, your parents’ backyard, or in a national park?it’s completely up to you.

Because you don’t have traditional heteronormative rules of wedding ceremonies, you can really feel free to make up whatever kind of ceremony you want to have. You don’t have to feel the pressure of having a bridal party (unless of course you want to), you don’t need to make it a religious ceremony, and you can write your own vows that ...