Flower girls and ring bearers are often the cutest parts of the wedding ceremony. A little two to ten year old child walking, sprinkling flowers, or holding a glittering ring on a pillow makes everyone say ooh and ahh. However, most flower girls and ring bearers will need a little preparation to be able to do their role well. Preparing your bridal party and others who are supporting your wedding can also help ensure that having a flower girl or ring bearer goes well.
Talk with Them Before Your Wedding
Little children love when an adult wants to talk to them in particular, and you taking some special time to discuss the wedding with them can really help them to get on board. Choose a time when the child is happy and rested, and talk about why you would like them to participate. Tell them about the outfit they get to wear, the actions they?ll need to take, and where they will stand. Listen to any fears they have, since some children are shy, and any questions they have about the big day. Answering questions early on can help you to pay attention to their concerns. If a little girl tells you that she really doesn?t like dresses, you get more time to figure out a nice skirt and top that she can wear instead, for instance.
Choose Wedding Clothes That Are Comfortable and Coordinated
Speaking of clothes, work with the child?s parents and your own vision for the wedding to find clothes that are both comfortable and fit the tone you want to set. It?s wonderful if you find the per...