So you?re thinking of getting engaged. The funny thing about getting engaged is that it involves two people. Although you may be planning a surprise or hoping to be surprised by your partner, there should still be some kind of discussion about it. You may not be ready to go out on that big of a limb and you need to at least know where your partner stands on the subject. How do you start" Marriage is a big deal. So how do you even begin to broach the subject"
Ya?ll Ready for This
Seriously, are you ready" Is your partner" Before you ask ?will you"? maybe you should ask if they?re even ready to say ?I do.? Think about where you and your partner are. It?s time to actually analyze and sit down to think about the relationship. This is hard if you?re one of those spontaneous, I-want-to-just-do-it kind of people. Try your best to determine where the relationship is located. Are you pretty close to marital bliss or are you closer to commitment phobia" A good way to judge this is by time. How long have you been together" If you feel like it?s time to get engaged and you?ve been together for a long time, you?re probably right on track to discuss it with your partner. Chances are if you?ve been together for a long time, your partner is expecting a talk about engagement at some point. Knowing where the relationship is in terms of readiness can help get the conversation rolling. This way you know where to start. If you?re worried it?s too early you ca...