There?s no question in anyone?s mind that planning a wedding is a lot of work, from the vendor meetings to the discussions over menu fonts and tablecloths. Most couples, however, are happy to take on the task because they know it will culminate in a beautiful wedding and the start of their ?happily ever after.?
But what do you do when ?happily ever after? never happens" What do you do if a few months, weeks, or even days before the wedding, someone calls it off" Here are a few suggestions to help you manage a broken engagement effectively (and with your sanity intact).
First Things First: Take Care of Yourself
Whether you are the one who leaves or the one left behind, calling off an engagement can be immensely stressful and emotionally draining. You may feel like there?s a lot to deal with, from canceling with the vendors to explaining the situation to your guests, but the most important thing on your list should be ensuring you?re OK. What?s going to make you feel better" Honestly, I can?t tell you. But take a little time for yourself to process your emotions before you do anything else. Get a massage, write down your feelings to get them out, treat yourself to some retail therapy?do whatever works for you!
This is also a great time to invest in the other relationships in your life. Instead of isolating yourself from everyone, spend time making new, happy memories with your family members and your closest friends (but if you need a little time alone, feel f...