First-responders don?t wear capes and they can’t fly?but they’re the real superheroes of our communities. They rush in when everyone’s rushing out and they?re the calming voice you need when you feel like your world is spiraling out of control. If you find yourself in a relationship with a first-responder, it’s probably proven to be a challenge. After all, they don’t have a typical 9 to 5 job, and they don’t always have the weekends or holidays off like everyone else. Not to mention, their work can be incredibly dangerous. If you’re in this boat, here’s some tips on how to survive dating a first-responder.
Understand What Their “Bad” Days Are all About
Assuming that you’re not in the same line of work as your boyfriend or girlfriend, understanding what they go through every day can be a little difficult. Some days are harder than others in their profession. Some are slow and easy, while others are non-stop and filled with horrific details. This can take a toll on even the strongest person. The hard days are when you need to take a step back and think about what they need as your significant other, not a first-responder. Yes, sometimes it?s hard to not be disappointed when they turn down a party invitiation or ask to reschedule a date night. Understand that your hard day is different from their hard day, and some days they need to just relax or blow off some steam. Don?t be afraid to ask if they would like to...