How to Weather the Storms: 5 Tips on Fighting Wisely with Your Spouse
All relationships have conflict sometimes. Yes, every single one of them. Let?s face it, no one lives in a magical fairy tale land where everything is sunshine and rainbows 24/7. You will not always agree with your spouse and that?s okay! But knowing how to move through those disagreements together and come out stronger on the other side of an argument is a genuine skill that takes patience and practice. Here are some things to keep in mind when you and your partner just can?t seem to get on the same page.
Wait It Out
Part of knowing how to wisely disagree with your spouse is knowing that it?s all in the timing. If you know you?re encountering a sensitive or emotional topic, it might be wise to wait and discuss it at a later time. For example, if you know you always fight about your daughter?s hockey schedule, it?s obvious that you shouldn?t talk about it at the rink, sure, but it also might be wise not to discuss on the way to or from practice, either. Maybe you could talk about it in the early morning or in an evening after watching a TV show, instead. Waiting to discuss a subject until a time when there?s a little more emotional distance can completely make or break the conversation. Giving a little bit of space around the topic can be helpful for all parties to be able to view the situation in a more collaborative, problem-solving light rather than seeing it as a fight.
Hold Hands
If you?re able, start a tough conversation while you?re in close, comfortable physical p...
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