How do you go about talking about the things that turn you on" It?s not easy discussing sex. Many of us were brought up not to talk about it and were taught not to enjoy it at all. If you did, you were considered loose.
But, it?s the 21st century; men and women have opened their eyes and more willingly embrace what turns them on. We are using more implements to bring our bodies to the peak of sexual satisfaction, whether they be toys, different positions while having sex, or even going as far as experimenting in new areas like BDSM (bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, sadism, masochism?the acronym is now used as a catch-all phrase for a wide variety of activities).
So, how do you go about embracing your kinky side"
Learn Yourself The first thing you need to do is decide what gives you pleasure. You might need to experiment with this by yourself first if you aren?t comfortable talking to your partner about it, but eventually you will need to bring that person into the loop. Like I said before, having a conversation about sex is not easy for everyone. If you were brought up as I was and you couldn?t really talk to your parents about the details, you relied a lot on your friends, and usually none of you knew what it was all about.
Luckily, things are more open these days and internet shopping makes it easy to be discreet if you still want to. Kinky toys will show up in the same inconspicuous packages as everything else, so nobody knows what you?ve bought. A fe...