So we’re having a semi-destination wedding—far from home for me, but someplace comfortable, easy, and familiar. After all, I grew up in Chicago, and I know full well that I can pick up any last-minute extras there.
As my dad always says…you’re not going to Siberia.*
But I’m always one to be hyper-prepared, because it helps keep my anxiety in check. And a big part of being prepared is keeping lists. I’ve got two different packing lists (one for Chicago, one for the honeymoon), a list of stuff to take care of on our trip to Chicago next weekend (where hopefully I meet the lovely Mrs. Sixpence for a beer), and then there’s the big list: things to do before leaving.
With a month until I fly to Chicago, there’s a lot to get done. Here’s what I’m looking at:
This Week
1. Buy a damn guestbook. I think Mr. W and I are going for something simple, like this one from Paper Source. In fact, I might go at lunch today, dog in tow. Because I’m SO LA.
Image via Paper Source
2. Get gifts for bridesmaids. I’m leaning toward jewelry that’s minimalistic enough they can wear whenever, but elegant.

Beautifully made, classic, high quality, and elegant. Hopefully something they’d wear again. | Image via Vrai and Oro
3. Get gifts for groomsmen. Mr. W. picks.
4. Get gifts for parents. One down, two to go (details later).
5. Get gifts for boys. Mr. W. picks.
6. Pick up dress from alterations. Scheduled: Saturday 3/1...