Single men often pride themselves in keeping a little black book. These days instead of an actual little black book, their phone is crammed with nicknames for girls they’ve met while going out, taken them home, or just hope to take home one day. You can label many guys “players” for this tactic, but what happens when it’s your significant other or your future spouse" If your significant other refuses to throw away their little black book, whether it be an actual book, or it means deleting numbers from their phone, it could raise a big red flag for your relationship.
He’s Too Lazy to Delete Them
You want to believe those numbers are in the phone because he’s simply too lazy to erase them. Does he recall who he labeled “Hot Blonde at Bar” or “Leggy Lindsey"” What about the girls you know he had in his phone for late night booty calls" You want to believe he just doesn’t care enough about having their numbers to erase them. The problem is you know they are there, and he should have taken the initiative to rid of them. Lazy or not, erasing these numbers means he is totally committed to you. As you look towards the future at your life together, you don’t need old ghosts in the closet waiting to appear if you have a disagreement. He may claim to be 100% loyal to you, but that little black book doesn’t lie.

Fear of Failure
He may be keeping the book with the thought in his mind that, ...