#MarriageGoals: Planning Our Relationship Resolutions for the New Year
As we plan our wedding, one thing both Mr. W and I are really focused on is our relationship. After all, it seems like people can get so caught up in the wedding that the marriage can become secondary.
And I can see it—planning gets stressful, especially as the wedding sneaks closer.
So this new year, along with some other crap, I made a few resolutions to keep me focused on what really matters: our relationship.

2017 goals: more adventures, more spontaneity, more health, less bullshit

1. Spend more quality time together. And by quality I don’t mean watching TV or sharing rushed dinners between the work day and my training sessions. I mean setting time apart to talk, bond, reconnect…without either of us playing on our phones or getting distracted. 2. Get physical. No, I don’t JUST mean sex, but making sure to hug and kiss goodbye rather than just running out the door. Or hand holding when taking a walk with Bowie. Or dancing together—which will be made easier by the pre-wedding dance lessons we plan on taking. Because seriously, Mr. W is NOT a dancer.
3. Write more down. I’ve made a commitment to writing more stuff down—notes about exciting things in my life, things I’ve learned, weird questions. And when it comes to my relationship, I want to write down the happy memories so we can savor them. I want to write more love notes, because why not"

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