Deciding to hold on to your virginity ? or possibly deciding to wait this time around ? until you are married is a strong commitment between you and your partner. You have likely had people on both sides of the issue weighing in on your decision, giving you advice and trying to guide you. However, everyone?s experiences and views on the subject vary, which can make it difficult to have a real, honest conversation.
Every couple needs to do what feels right for them, and this does not make a couple?s decision any less valid. So, if you have been saving sex for marriage, here is what you can expect on your wedding night.
It Will be Awkward

Everyone?s first time is awkward. It can still be awkward for those who have slept with other people before their new partner. There is no reason either of you should feel badly, or feel that you are not any good at doing the deed. If you have a friend who told you about a horrible, awkward experience they had because they saved sex for marriage, do not assume that is what you can expect on your wedding night. Rather than see this as a negative, turn it into a positive. Laugh about it and just enjoy each other. Sometimes the awkwardness can be the most fun and memorable moments for a couple.
There is a Learning Curve
Much like when you get a new car and have to adjust to the driving style, what is pleasurable for one person is not necessarily the same for another. Regardless of the amount of research you do and the advice you get beforehan...