Ah, bachelor and bachelorette parties. These events are the stuff of legends. Group of friends have epic stories about them. Movies are written about them. And every couple looks forward to having their own?or do they" These days, many couples aren?t as into the booze-and-stripper-filled exploits of bachelors and bachelorettes past. In fact, some couples are opting to combine their parties for one big soirée.
Obviously, a joint bachelor/ette party will be quite different from the traditional, sex-segregated events our parents attended. That can be a great thing?but it also comes with some drawbacks. Here are a few pros and cons to help you decide if a combo event is right for you and your finacé.
Pro: Everyone Can Mingle

Your bridesmaids and groomsmen typically attend your bachelor or bachelorette party. They also spend a lot of time together during the wedding planning process, attending fittings, bridal showers, rehearsal dinners, and of course the wedding itself. But sometimes, members of your wedding party don?t know each other very well?which is why they need a good party to break the ice. If you host a joint bachelor/ette party, your friends have the opportunity to chat and get comfortable with one another. This serves two purposes: it keeps your bridesmaids and groomsmen from looking uncomfortable when they walk up the aisle together, and it helps different groups of friends become better acquainted. Who knows, your childhood bestie and your spouse?s college...