If having sex is so easy, why does talking about it seem to be so hard" Lots of couples struggle with approaching this subject so if you?re struggling, you?re not alone. When did such a natural act become so complicated" The truth is, it doesn?t have to be. With open communication, you?d be surprised how many bedroom issues can be cleared up. The problem is getting there. How do you express or explain what can sometimes be a touchy subject" This is especially hard if you or your partner are shy about this kind of thing.
Just Talk
There are a lot of ways you can attempt to broach the subject of sex, but none of them are going to work if you don?t actually talk. Sometimes the best way to talk about something is to just talk about it. Get your courage up and just start speaking. Explain to your partner that you might not be saying the right things, but there are some bedroom issues you just absolutely need to discuss. Some partners may clam up at your forwardness, but some may respond well to the honesty. Chances are, if you act like it?s no big deal, your partner will feel less awkward. If they don?t respond so well, then at least you know where you stand and you can venture a guess about which topics make your partner uncomfortable. With this method, although it can seem a bit daunting, you will always gain something.
Easy Does It
The best way to approach any touchy topic is to start with the easy stuff. Begin at the fringes of the topic and work your way to...