Wedding planning should be a fun and exciting process for you and your partner, but it can sometimes get complicated when other family members are involved. Since your parents, siblings, and other relatives love you very much, it can sometimes be difficult for them to take a step back and let you plan and coordinate your own day to your liking. Here are some subjects that may cause some dissension before the big day?and some ways to potentially avoid those pitfalls!
Settling on a Date for the Wedding
The very moment after you get engaged is when questions about your wedding begin?most specifically, ?Have you picked a date yet"? Although you might think that something as simple as choosing a day to get married would be conflict-free, you?d be surprised how many opinions your family might have right out of the gate. People may feel strongly about a certain season, a certain day of the week, and even your chosen date?s proximity to other important days in your family. A good way to avoid some of those concerns is to ask a trusted family member if there are any dates or times that might be a good idea to rule out right off the bat, such as family holidays or anniversaries. Knowing these important things before you start to decide on a date yourself can help you avoid arguments from the get-go. Choosing a Venue for the Ceremony or Reception

There are many reasons families might create conflict around wedding locations, particularly if you and your partner are living far a...