Being a bridesmaid is one of the highest honors bestowed upon a friend. It can also be one of the most stressful parts to play in a wedding ceremony because there’s so much excitement, anticipation and expectations for the perfect wedding. I’ve been a bridesmaid ten times, so I understand the ins and outs of what really goes into being the perfect bridesmaid. Don’t worry about letting your friend down, we’ve got the ultimate guide to rocking your role as a bridesmaid.
Be an Emotional Support to the Bride
A sweet soon-to-be bride can often turn into Bridezilla as the stress of the wedding whirls around her. It’s your job to simply be there and offer a shoulder to cry on. You can also offer a swift kick to her butt if she’s really getting out of control! Let your friend rant and rave about photography prices, the crazy people your in-laws want to add to the guest list and how she can’t find the perfect jewelry to match her wedding shoes. There’s going to be small things that go wrong, whether it’s months before the wedding or the day of the wedding. It’s your job to keep her sane and focused on the true heart of a wedding. Sure, the wrong color of napkins may arrive in the mail and throw her into a hissy fit. Help her calm down and realize the wedding will go on whether the napkins are pink or blush.
Keep Up With Your Wedding Instructions
One of the most annoying things about bridesmaids is keeping them in line. I...