The Ultimatum: Will It Get You to Your Wedded Bliss, or Will It Get You Dumped"
You’re sitting around with your friends and significant other at happy hour while your newly engaged bestie is showing off her perfect diamond ring. Her fiance is beaming as she gushes about the clarity and how the proposal was “like a fairy tale.” You hold her hand to examine the ring more closely, and you nod and say it is the most gorgeous engagement ring you’ve ever seen. And then, you look over at your boyfriend, whose eyes are locked on the TV above the bar watching the game. No one seems to notice, but you notice.
You’ve also noticed that every time you bring up getting married, he brushes you off and changes the subject. Or even worse, he says something along the lines of, “I don’t see it happening any time soon” or “I’m in no rush.” The problem is, you do see it happening soon, and you may not be in a rush, but you are ready. So, you?ve complained a little here and there to your mom and your co-workers, and the word “ultimatum” has been tossed around once or twice. Okay, maybe more. But, even though you are sure it’s worked for some couples, you are not sure it would work for you two. You are also terrified to scare him away with “till death do us part.” You want to be honest about how you feel and what you want, but you love him too much to let him go. Do you need to give him an ultimatum" The answer may be yes, but not the way you think.
If you truly see your bo...
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