Virgin or not, the wedding night conjures up all kinds of excitement and nervous energy. This is the night, the one you’ve been anticipating for a long time, so it’s only natural that you want everything to be perfect.
Whether you’ve never slept together before, or you’ve done it a thousand times, everyone wants their wedding night to go smoothly. Remember, even if something doesn’t go 100% perfectly on your wedding night, it doesn’t mean that your marriage or your sex life is doomed. The best way to really get rid of the wedding night jitters is to be open and honest with your spouse and talk about what your expectations and anxieties are. Above all, remember to have fun and try to relax. Sex isn’t the biggest part of marriage, but it’s certainly one that should be enjoyed and savored. Let’s talk about all the ways to make your wedding night memorable.
It Doesn’t Have to be Outrageous
Despite what you’ve seen in movies and read about in books, your wedding night doesn’t have to be completely over-the-top with rose petals, champagne with candles everywhere. The two of you have just made a commitment to spend your lives together?the romance element takes care of itself.

Of course, making your wedding night a little extra special is a good plan. However, don’t feel like there is a requirement to put on a big production. On the flip side, don’t be disappointed if your new husband or wife hasn...