Wedding crashers. No, we?re not talking about the movie, we?re talking about real life weddings. We all know what wedding crashers are: they?re those people who don?t RSVP and then show up anyway. Sometimes they are complete strangers just coming around for the cake, trying to pass themselves off as guests. What do you do if people crash your wedding" Do you kick them out no questions asked or should you take a calmer approach" It?s hard to know in these situations especially if the crashers are people you know and don?t want to offend. Let?s look at some of the best ways to deal with these pesky people.
Is There Room"
So your next-door neighbors just showed up, even though they did not RSVP. How rude! But you don?t want to snub them even if they didn?t say they were coming. They?re here now and you?d like to seat them if you can. Can you seat them" Is there enough space" Figure out how hard it will be to seat and feed these people. If seating them is going to be a huge inconvenience, then you might consider telling them the bad news.
Add and Subtract
When deciding whether to kick out the party crashers, you should add and subtract. That is, figure out whether they add or subtract from the event. Are these people you don?t even know" Are they being disrespectful or disruptive" Then you might want to get rid of them. If you know them, how close are you" Weigh the pros and cons. How offended will they be if you send them away" In...