Weddings, like any other event, are like intricate puzzles?they can?t quite work unless all of the pieces are present. And, no matter the size, it?s likely you?ve hired a minister, a florist, a baker, a caterer, someone to play music (either live musicians or a DJ), and possibly even a wedding coordinator to be there for you on the big day. If one of these key players doesn?t show up or is very, very late, it can quickly make you feel like things are in a tailspin. Here?s what to do if you find yourself in this unfortunate situation, and more importantly, how to not let it ruin your wedding day.
First, Calm Down

Though your guttural reaction may be intense anger when someone shows up late to your wedding?particularly when you are paying the person to show up?you have to remember to be calm. People are only human, and even the most organized of us forget to write something down in our planners or mix up a time and date every once in awhile. Take a minute to breathe and calm yourself before you start contacting the person in a panic. If you are too angry?hand the phone over to the groom, a bridesmaid, or your mom if you think they could better handle it. Then, Contact the Missing Wedding Professional
Once you have taken a moment to calm down, it?s time to start tracking down the missing vendor. Start with their cell phone number, and then work your way down to office number or any other contact information they may have shared with you like an e-mail address. As a last ditc...