Though official wedding ceremonies did not exist in ancient Egypt?the lady entered the man’s home with the household items both families had agreed upon, and the relationship was solidified from that point on?the tradition of getting married in the first place originated there. Before that, there was no name for a union of this kind. Still, there’s much we can learn from the originators of weddings (and, by the way, divorces). Romance was still valued, but moving up in the world and the solidity of a family?s holdings and reputation were also considered important. Here are a few of the lessons we?ve learned from perusing ancient Egypt?s archives.
Family Approval
Both in ancient times and now, Egyptian weddings have to be approved by the families of the bride and groom, whether the wedding is arranged or a love match. Gaining the family?s approval of your bride or groom isn?t completely necessary (especially in some situations, when there is just no way your father will ever approve of the man you?re marrying, and it?s best just to move along). But generally, taking every step you can to bond and create relationships with your fiancé?s family is an important part of creating a life together. In ancient Egypt, a marriage meant that two families? lineages were joining up?two rivers converging. So, of course, the bearers of the family name wanted to ensure that it wasn?t being besmirched by a reckless choice in partner from their son or daughter. Leaving the Past ...