Knowing when to commit versus when to keep playing the field can be difficult. Emotions are not black and white, and it is not as easy as making a pro and con list. If it were that easy, you wouldn’t be reading this and looking for the universe to send you signs.

If you’re contemplating hanging up your player’s jersey, here are some things to consider. You can go ahead and buy the hanger should you find yourself agreeing with these statements.
You’re Not Thinking About Other People
One sure sign you’re ready to commit and stop playing the field is when you’re no longer interested in seeing other people. It may seem obvious, but it’s true, especially if you’re not a serial monogamist. Serial monogamists have less trouble taking the leap than those who are not, and they definitely do not have the same struggles and anxieties about it. If you tend to live (and love) the single life, you usually keep things more casual and your options open. So, when you start cutting ties with other partners and are no longer seeking or thinking about new ones, you’re probably ready.
He or She is Your Priority
This is a two-way street; you should be his or her first priority as well. It doesn’t feel good when someone puts everything else before you and is something that will cause strain in your relationship. Of course, he or she will always have other things going on in life, but he or she should make an effort for you. If you don&...