Eloping is a beautiful choice. Some would argue an even better choice than having the huge crazy ceremony with hundreds of people. Eloping means you don?t have to do all the crazy planning, deal with the RSVP?s, and come up with all that money. There are some really good reasons to elope so why would those who?ve chosen to do so back out last minute" Did they get cold feet on their choice or did the idea of a big wedding come back to haunt them" If you?ve decided to elope, there may be a few things weighing on your mind and you may be wondering if you made the right decision. While there are some good reasons to change your mind, here are some bad reasons to back out on the elopement.
Family Pressure
One of the worst reasons to cancel your elopement is because your family has guilt tripped you out of your choice. Those are the key words: your choice. You chose to do an elopement and you obviously had some good reasons for doing so. Maybe money was a factor. Maybe you?re just the kind of couple that doesn?t like a ton of eyes on them. Maybe you just like the idea of traveling for your wedding. It doesn?t matter what your reasons were, any reason is better than doing something purely because you feel guilty. It?s a different story if your family brings up some good points and helps you to realize you actually do want a big wedding. But tread carefully! Your family knows you best and they may know how to undermine your confidence. If you really want to elope, don?t ...